When we do something wrong, we feel ashamed. We try to hide it and try to pretend it never happened. For example, we may have been caught in a car crash and don’t want to take public transportation to work. We may even have a friend that told us that we are “too responsible.” This is where we are so bad at our self-awareness that we get caught in the guilt loop.
This is the bad part. When we get caught in a guilt loop, we start blaming ourselves for our actions. We think, “How could this have happened?”. Because we have failed so many times, we start to believe we are the reason for our problems. This is the part where we think we should have done something differently, or that we deserve someone else to do something differently.
The fact is we do not deserve blame for anything. We know this, but we don’t care so much. What we need to do is think, “I will do everything I can to get out of this,” and “I will take responsibility for my actions and my actions will be my responsibility”.
This is a common thing among veterans, that is true, but it’s also a mistake. What we do not take responsibility for is that we have let the system we are on become too powerful. We are not just a pawn in the game of life, we are a key cog, and the only way to regain control is to take back our power.
I will do everything I can to get out of this. If only I am not so fucking lazy. And I will take responsibility for my actions and my actions will be my responsibility.
You know that’s an attitude I’m not too fond of. But this is a great example to show that it is possible to recover from the mistakes we’ve made in the past.
This is a great example of a person who is not lazy, not lazy at all, who is just doing his best to get back to the good side of things. We see in this video that the guy who was at the helm of the game’s development is not entirely to blame for the state of the game, but he is not completely to blame for it either.
We’re all in this together. We all have to do the best we can with what we have. If we don’t have the resources to do the work, we can’t fix the problem. This is what makes this so challenging. When we have a problem we don’t have the resources to fix, we have to learn to live with it. It’s a lesson that we’ve all been taught in school.
Thats why we have the Internet.
Its easy to get bogged down by the “We are in this together” mentality. The problem is we dont always listen to what we were taught. Its easy to get so focused on your own success that you forget everyone else is also trying to become successful. This is why we have to learn to live with failure. Learn to accept how others are going through their own process.